Toxic Treat interviews: Mistress Venus
Mistress Venus reveals that the Goddess of Love is a gloriously powerful, cunning, and gorgeous temptress who delights in extracting tears from her adoring subjects. She revels in the artistry of humiliation and delights in the power and control she has over the legions who worship her. In this tantalizing interview, Mistress Venus gives us a glimpse of why there are so many worshipers at her temple.
Without further ado, I proudly present Mistress Venus answering the Toxic Ten.
Mistress Venus
1. Please introduce yourself.
I am Mistress Venus and I am located in the central Florida area. I am well known throughout Florida as well as the U.S. I am a lifestyle Domina as well as a Pro-Domina and although I have what many would consider as 15 years experience “in the lifestyle,” I have been sadistic with a dominant personality all my life. In fact, I abhor that term…”in the lifestyle.” “I am not IN the lifestyle. The lifestyle is in ME!” I became aware of my sadistic nature when I was sexually aroused while watching a man struggle in a wrestling hold on during a WWF television show. I was 11 years old. The rest is history. Although I am a professional Dominatrix, my favorite subjects are those that I train for my personal use and Ownership. It is only through a long-term relationship that I am able to train a slave to endure the intense levels of subjugation that I require to fulfill my deepest cravings. However, because I do Pro-Domination, I am able to engage someone at any level, from the novice to the extreme edge player. I am a “HANDS-ON” Mistress. ONLY! I do NOT do phone sessions or web-cam sessions. To experience my Domination you must be brave enough to come “front and center.”
2. What is the cruelest thing you have ever done to someone?
Because that is “relative,” it will be hard to pinpoint any ONE thing. Different things are considered “cruel” to different people. What is cruel to one person is heaven to another. And, this way of life has so many venues in which to administer cruelty, especially for someone who is sadistic. Sadism is about watching someone’s discomfort, regardless of whether it is physical, emotional, or psychological. However, in an attempt to provide a window into my mind for your readers I particularly enjoy the cruelty of extended periods of chastity with sexual tease and denial. When I say extended, I am speaking of days at a time (sometimes weeks) in which erections are induced and teased to the point of orgasm, then ceasing all activity and denying release. Keeping the slave in chastity in between ministrations to prevent them from being able to touch themselves when they are away. Keeping them chained and locked in my bed at night so I can roll over and tease them throughout the night. I enjoy doing this until a man has blue balls and is begging, groveling, some times crying, for release, promising anything, while I satiate myself over an over.
3. How do you know when you have truly broken someone?
TEARS!! When a man gives me tears I know he has crossed a threshold. Then I know I have taken him to a place where all “machismo” has been removed and he is completely raw and vulnerable. When he is sobbing at my feet, kissing them, thanking me for the cathartic experience that can only be understood by those who have been there. But I would like to interject something here about the word “broken.” It is not my intention to break them in a sense of breaking someone’s spirit. But, breaking down those barriers that, for whatever reason, keep a man from completely surrendering themselves and that they can’t let go of by themselves. Those barriers of social or familial conditioning that often prevent a man from surrendering all of himself, consciously or subconsciously. Taking his tears and watching a slave evolve through that is totally awesome.
4. What is your favorite way to humiliate someone?
Again, there is no “one” answer. What is humiliating for one person can be totally relished by another. It really depends on the person I’m trying to humiliate. I like to find that person’s buttons. Get into their head. Then find something that is humiliating to them but doesn’t cross the line of being psychologically damaging for that person. Everyone has their own unresolved issues that can be exacerbated by certain types of humiliation if one is not aware. So it is essential to find out what makes that person tick in order to find the right forms of humiliation for that person. That said, I have a penchant for those who find piss play humiliating. I DON’T enjoy scat play but I do enjoy piss play. Not necessarily having them imbibe and not necessarily my piss. I won’t elaborate any further because something must be left to the imagination for those who might have the opportunity to serve me someday. I also enjoy humiliating through acts of violation, all types of violation. Again, use your imagination.
5. What are some telltale signs of weakness?
An erect penis pretty much gives it away. Need I say more?
6. How do you go about exploiting someone's weaknesses?
Hahahahahaha! Every way imaginable.
7. What is your favorite thing about being truly dominant?
The POWER and CONROL. It is more psychological and intellectual at first. Then that will morph into sexual excitement for me. For example, when I described earlier about getting tears from someone, it first triggers a strong psychological feeling of power, control and intellectual satisfaction. Then that will morph into my wanting to get close physically and sexually while they are in their vulnerable state. Kissing their tears away…and so on…and so forth.
8. What are some of the many things that make you better than those around you?
I don’t think I am better than anyone, just different. Everyone has their own areas of expertise and different people are attracted to different energies. There isn’t any “better.”
9. Scientists have found that the major sub-interests of Dominance/Sadism are: Administrations of Pain, Bondage,Humiliation, and Dominance. Which of these are you most drawn to?
What scientific study are you citing that from? And how can it be valid when many won’t even disclose they have any interests in these areas of sexual exploration. But, to answer the question of what I am more drawn to the answer is E: all of the above. I am sadistic. But, I can cause discomfort with all of those activities. Through corporal punishment, bondage, humiliation, sensory stimulation and deprivation, sexual tease/denial…etc. The list can go on and on. It really isn’t any consistent thing or activity that draws me to it but rather what ever is required to get the response I’m looking for. That is one of the reasons I consider myself well-versed and eclectic in regards to my areas of skill. By having learned a wide variety of skills I can create discomfort no matter what particular buttons that individual has.
10. What do you find truly sexy?
A very handsome, manly looking type of man, (especially one who might have a powerful job or position in life) getting down on his knees for the first time, looking up at me with unsure eyes, and humbling himself before me. There is nothing like watching the discomfort and surrender on a powerful man’s face the very first time he humbles himself. I would imagine it is similar to taking someone’s innocence or virginity. It is untainted, POWERFUL and HOT.
Did I mention it is POWERFUL and HOT?