Wow thank You so much for this interview for Toxic Treat Godess! Were You always so dominant?

Well, that's not what I've always called it, but yes. I have always exerted a great deal of influence over my peers, male and female. And boyz have always triggered in me a spirit of aggression, especially boyz who show sexual interest in me. If I am interested in a boy as well, the aggression can take the form of me jumping on top of him, unbuttoning his jeans, and sliding down on his "manhood" without warning. Of course, if I am involved in a mutual attraction with a man who enjoys pain, I am more than happy to let loose on him with my sadistic tendencies.

i know You are an accomplished Hypnodomme, Humiliatrix, and Fetish Goddess. As a humiliation slave, i am not at all familiar with exactly what a Hypnodomme does? Can You elaborate please?

"Hypnodomme" is another way of saying Femdom Erotic Hypnotist. You just need to break it down. Femdom equals female dominant. Erotic means sexual or sensual. And hypnosis is a state of being in which the subject's subconscious mind is open and suggestible. A hypnotist is one who guides others into a state of hypnosis.

So, what I do as a Hypnodomme is take the subject into a trance-like state, where he is highly suggestible. From there, it depends on what the subject and I have agreed to work on. Here are some popular requests:

Feminization (as a temporary transformation or for ongoing behavior modification)

Love, Addiction, and Enslavement (mostly to the Hypnodomme, but sometimes to another woman)

Humiliation (to lose inhibitions during hypnosis, or to be aroused in general when being humiliated)

Chastity Traning/Tease and Denial (again, either for temporary mind and cock conrol, or for long term)

Trance for the Sake of Trance (Not a fan, womenrule? You ought to try it with me sometime.)

Check out my latest Hypnodomme website for a description of what to generally expect for an erotic hypnosis session.

How did You get involved with hypnosis?

I grew up listening to my mother's meditation tapes, and guided meditation is similar to progressive relaxation inductions in hypnosis. As a child I didn't realize that, though. I became interested in erotic hypnosis in 2002, via the Yahoo chat rooms (back when they were cool). I was just playing around online, surfing the BDSM and fetish categories. Somewhere along the lines, I discovered an Erotic Hypnosis chat room.

As someone who was already interested in BDSM and power exchange, the phrase alone seemed super hot to me. It struck some kind of "omg" chord. So, I ended up chatting with the hypno-fetishists, and even talked on the phone with a few. I quickly learned that erotic hypnosis was not only something that I could enjoy as a subject, but also something that I was naturally very good at.

When I first signed up on NiteFlirt in 2003, I created a phone line for erotic hypnosis. Much to my pleasure, I was getting calls right away. And those same callers still come back for sessions now, as we approach 2010.

Are You a Female Supremacist?

Not necessarily. I think both women and men have a lot to offer each other in many capacities. I do, however, enjoy being treated as a superior. I also believe that women are the primary holders of sexual power. Unfortunately, there is only a percentage who know how to use it. Actually, come to think of it, that is a fortunate thing (for me, and for the rest of the ladies on this site).

How did You start abusing losers?

Just losers? Most of the boyz I abuse aren't losers.

Anyways, it started naturally when I was very young. I was so cruel to my boyfriends! My favorite thing to do back then was to play brutal minds games. I also enjoyed inflicting physical pain, like digging my fingernails into their hands or twisting their ears hard. Nowadays, I will do those things only if they are consensual.

I joined my first real time BDSM club when I was 18. And I started to professionally abuse losers through NiteFlirt, because aside from my erotic hypnosis line, I also had a Mistress line. And I still have that one, too.

Please tell us about Your various training programs? Do You offer lifestyle training?

Any slave training I do is on a case-by-case basis, so I do not have any commonly employed training programs. However, my slave training commonly includes either one or more of the following: erotic hypnosis, chastity, personal assignments (including routine tributes), feminization, and corporal punishment (including bondage, spanking, flogging, caning, tickle torture, and sensory deprivation).

I am currently the proud owner of one real time slave, who receives my only lifestyle training at this point. I am open to more real time slaves. However, I am quite selective about who I am willing to invest as much time and emotion in as a lifestyle Domme/sub relationship requires.

Do You have any personal slaves?

Yes. My distance slaves (online and phone) generally tend to serve consistently for a long while, and then disappear for a bit, just to come back again with even more enthusiasm than the last time. I've been told by a few slaves that they appreciate how I don't get upset about the coming and going. I do understand.

Please tell us about Your fabulous clips4sale store.

I basically opened that store for boys who would rather purchase individual files than join my Cult membership site (where even more of my fetish videos exist). The cool feature with my Clips4Sale store is that people can watch little previews of all my videos.

Most of my videos are of me alone, while others include my friend Poison Rouge, or my sexy slaveboy. My clips commonly deal with fetishes such as hypno, humiliation, tease and denial, smoking fetish, lipstick fetish, and foot fetish.

What kind of slaves do You like the most? What kind will You not put up with?

I like generous, compliant, and consistent slaves the best. They should either spend a lot of money on me, put a lot of time into pleasing me, or both. They should always gladly do whatever I ask of them as soon as they can. And they should do all of it as consistently as possible, for as long of a time as it pleases us both.

The "subs" who get ignored are the ones who do not put any effort into pleasing me. Lazy and thoughtless boyz who just want me to cater to their fetishes. I also dislike guys who challenge me; who say things like "You can't hypnotize me" or "Try to make me submit." They can totally go screw themselves. I'm also not fond of guys who are in any way rude to me or my Femdom acquaintances. Passive-aggressive behavior, whining, and especially lies are also huge no-nos.

Do You have any websites where future slaves can learn more about You?

I list and describe a number of my personal sites further down in this interview. But you might also be interested in checking out my previous interviews at Hypnosis Addiction and The Chastity Interviews.

Do You enjoy training cross dressers and sissies? Do You enjoy forced transformations?

Yes, I specialize in feminization hypnosis and slut training. I love to play with sissies, pantyboys, and bisexual guys (or guys who will suck cock "for me"). It is so much fun to dress up a guy real time! I also collect photographs of crossdressers to post on my LiveJournal, which you can read more about here.

What is Your favorite type of clothing?

My taste in clothing varies, depending on my mood and who I want to impress. I'll list my top favorites (in no particular order):

Goth (lots of black, velvet, lace)

Punk (leopard print, torn clothing)

Fetish (latex, pvc, corsets, fetish shoes and boots)

Sexy Librarian (blouses, pleated skirts, hosiery, dark-framed glasses)

Rich Bitch (expensive dresses, jewelry, and accessories)

Retro/Vintage (specifically 1940s and 1950s glamour)

Comfy (whatever the f*ck fits and feels good)

Do You enjoy humiliating losers?

I enjoy humiliating boyz, regardless of whether or not they are losers. In my opinion, just because a boy enjoys humiliation or crossdressing, or enjoys spending money on attractive and powerful women, that doesn't mean he totally and completely sucks. If a guy really is a loser (meaning he sucks in many ways and kind of disgusts me), then I enjoy hurting him more than I enjoy humiliating him.

Is there any memorable scene You have had with a slave that You could share with us?

Just one? Heehee. Well, I recently attended an annual "kinky camping" event with my real time slave. One of the days we were there, we dressed him up as a pvc pony. I guided him around the campsite and asked random pretty ladies if they'd like to pet him. It was my first time doing any real time pony play, and it was surprisingly arousing for me. It was definitely arousing for him, as well.

Wow very cool! How do You deal with all of the wankers online?

Thankfully, I have a pretty effective wanker-detector, so I do not often have my time wasted. If I sense that a boy just wants to vamp off of my amazing Goddess energy without serving in any worthwhile way, he is ignored. Usually, I don't even block the sad soul. I just let him embarrass himself with multiple messages of desperation until he goes away.

Do You accept cuckold slaves?

Well, technically, a cuckold is a married man who has a cheating wife. And sure, I'll take those. But I also have had (and would enjoy more) slaves who get aroused hearing about (or even watching) the sex I have. I also enjoy rubbing in their faces how it could never be them.

Do You have a lot of foot slaves?

Hmmm. I am not sure if I ever had a real foot slave. I do online sessions (and real time play) involving my feet. I have boyz who occasionally purchase new footwear for me, as well as boyz who purchase worn footwear from me. Foot massages are one of my favorite pastimes. I just haven't had a consistent Domme/sub relationship where the primary focus is my feet.

Do You offer monthly payment schedules for losers as well as drive by wallet rapings?

Yes, I do. Usually, my payment schedules also involve consensual blackmail, because that just makes it more fun. They also include some sort of contract, time period for when the schedule can end (if at all), and a buy-out fee. Lots of discussion is necessary beforehand, so that the slave and I both know what we are getting into and that it's serious business.

What are some of Your other interests besides BD/SM?

I enjoy writing, reading, drawing, painting, and photography. When it comes to books, I like fiction that is simultaneously dark and humorous, and non-fiction on topics such as psychology (including hypnosis), sexuality, sociology, and magick.

The movies I most enjoy are independent films, documentaries, foreign films, and cult classics. Mainstream Hollywood movies rarely do it for me.

Some other favorite pastimes are going to concerts and clubs which feature my favorite types of music, which include goth (or deathrock), industrial, punk, post-punk, classic rock, hard rock, alternative rock, metal, psychobilly, 80s underground, trip-hop, electronic, and ethereal.

I also like cats. Feeding them, petting them, cuddling with them, and speaking to them in voices that frighten my neighbors.

What are Your favorite types of gifts? Could You post some wish lists that lucky slaves can click to tribute You?

If you are curious about my taste in stuff, feel free to visit my Amazon wishlist. Hell, you might as well buy me something while you are there. But I generally prefer Amazon gift certificates.

Another favorite is GreenDot MoneyPaks, which boyz can buy with cash at a nearby store(currently US only), and then send me the code. I enter the code into my online GreenDot account, and the money is on my card to spend, just like that. Boyz can locate a nearby store that sells them by clicking here and entering your city, state, and zip code.

And yet another favorite is gift cards from Southwest Airlines. If you keep up on my journal, you know that I love to travel, and I do it often. So, yeah; Southwest!

All gift cards and MoneyPak codes can be sent to lycia@lyciascontrol.com. Also, I love being gifted with cash to my P.O. box, or with fetish clothing (such as expensive latex and leather tops, skirts, and corsets). Let me know if you are interested in gifting me with something like that, and we'll discuss methods of getting it to me. I think that expensive fetish clothing is the most self-rewarding gift one can give me, as it is predestined to be featured in numerous fetish videos and fetish photos, and will be worn at the kinky/fetish events I frequently attend.

I have learned to not let slaves and admirers go shopping for me on their own. Despite the fact that they might have been obsessively checking out my wishlist, videos, and general interests for years, they still can't seem to get a handle on my taste! That's why I prefer gift certificates, money tributes, or to specifically tell boyz exactly what I desire :-)

Could You please tell us the links where slaves can learn more about You?

Here's a neat list with descriptions.

Cult of Lycia - This is my membership site, which currently includes over 70 fetish videos, hundreds of fetish photos, recorded erotica that I've written, and more. The video categories include erotic hypnosis, humiliation, financial fetish, tease and denial, feminization, smoking fetish, hosiery fetish, lipstick fetish, shoe fetish, and foot fetish. That's all on the inside. The public area includes my Femdom and fetish forums, which all are welcome to join and participate in.

Lycia's Control - This was the first adult website I created. It offers a list of my erotic hypnosis and fetish mp3s with complete descriptions for each. It also features some poetry that slaves and subbies have written for me, and some hypnotic images which were created in Flash.

Goddess Lycia's World - This is another site which features my erotic hypnosis and fetish mp3s. The recordings are divided into categories here, including erotic hypnosis, humiliation, tease and denial, sissification, and money slavery.

My Clips4Sale Store - Just about all of my videos are available to members of my Cult website, but I decided to make most of them available through Clips4Sale for those who would prefer to purchase individual files of interest, rather than join my site.

My LiveJournal - I update this very frequently, and encourage all my friends and admirers to keep up on it. I use it to promote myself, but I also use it to connect with other fetish and BDSM lovers, as well as to reflect on myself and my life.

My NiteFlirt Pages - This is where you can find all of my NiteFlirt phone listings and descriptions, as well as my availability for phone sessions. It also includes some recorded listings.

My Flirt Store - Many of my videos and mp3s are listed here for sale through NiteFlirt. Just another way to sell stuff, aside from my personal websites and Clips4Sale store.

My TalkSugar Pages - This is where you can find all of my TalkSugar phone listings and descriptions, as well as my availability for phone sessions.

My Tweets - When I first joined Twitter, I thought it was evil. Not sure why, but it kind of scared me. Now, I totally dig it. Please do follow me there.

My YouTube Channel - This is my second channel there (the first one was terminated). Here, you can see samples of some of my erotic hypnosis videos, as well as some smoking-to-music videos that I enjoy making and posting for free. Do subscribe.

Hypnodomme Sessions - This site features some of the most talented and beautiful Femdoms on the web, who also offer erotic hypnosis telephone sessions through TalkSugar.

Additionally, I have a number of profiles on social networking sites, but I think I linked you all enough for now ;-) Besides, I strive to evolve, so if you are reading this interview in a few years from now, although a lot of the links will be exactly the same, the descriptions will have changed.

Wow that is some list! If someone gave You 10 million dollars what would You do with it?

I'd give half a million to my dad, and half a million to my mom. Then, I'd have a dream house with a dream swimming pool built. And a huge custom kitty tree built into it. New furniture for the huge house, new electronics and appliances. The highest-end recording, photography, and video equipment. New wardrobe and beauty supplies. A personal chef. A housekeeper. A cat-sitter.

I'd travel travel travel- -first class everything. Lots of Europe, and some of Asia. I'd visit my friends who live all around the USA on a consistent basis. Fly across country some weekends just for a good concert.

More education. I'd get degrees in art, psychology, sexuality, foreign language. Maybe open my own art gallery.

Personal massages by hunky men every day. A personal chauffeur with a shiny hearse.

The best house insurance, health insurance, life insurance, pet insurance.

And the rest would go into savings. Is 10 million enough for all that? Perhaps one day I'll find out.

How can a slave contact You?

I prefer to be contacted through my primary e-mail address, lycia@lyciascontrol.com. I can also be messaged through TalkSugar and NiteFlirt. If you have a question that others might benefit from, please post it to the forums on the public side of my Cult website.

Please tell us about Your future endeavors Goddess?

Well, I already gave you a plethora of links, heehee. As far as future endeavors are concerned, I plan to keep growing as a professional and lifestyle Domme. I am going to continue with my erotic hypnosis, humiliation, and fetish videos for a very long time. Same with my mp3s and online/phone sessions.

I also want to grow more as a web designer, artist, photographer, fetish model, writer, and marketer.

Even if I received the 10 million we discussed earlier, I'd continue to do what I do as a Pro Domme. Because in all honesty, while I positively adore the money, it isn't all about that. It's about having fun. It's about making friends who have common interests. It's about being respected, admired, and appreciated. And most of all, it's about having an outlet through which to express my creative and sexual energy. I need that.

Thank You so much for this interview Goddess. i really learned a lot about You and think You are awesome!
you are very welcome slave.

You can see more of Goddess Lycia here.