Toxic Treat Interviews: Lady Joanne Lafontaine

In this gloriously titillating interview, Lady Joanne Lafontaine reveals that one of her clients calls her the Wolflady. After reading just a few sentences of this interview, it is clear why. Lady Lafontaine is exquisite and intelligent, and her ferocious beauty hides an elegant animal cruelty that is always simmering just below the surface. In this sumptuous interview, Lady Lafontaine mentions the parallel between training a horse and breaking a sub, and I will give you a little teaser: she says the horses are more of a challenge.

Here is Lady Joanne Lafontaine sinking her teeth into the Toxic Ten.

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1. Please introduce yourself.
My name is Lady Joanne Lafontaine and I have been a professional fetish model and dominatrix for the past eight years. Many will know me from my sites, but for those who don’t, or who are interested in the woman behind the pictures, I am happy to give a closer look at what makes me tick. I am a Lady of quality and privilege who has always known precisely what she wants and knows exactly how to get it ;especially from men ,whom I have always considered to be inferior to women in general and to me in particular, and who are generally ripe for the taking by a beautiful and forceful woman like myself. I have been dominating males since I was in kindergarten and get immense satisfaction from hearing and seeing their total adoration and abandonment to my irresistible presence and personality, and experiencing their total willingness to suffer any pain or humiliation that I see fit to deal out to them just for the privilege of being allowed to act as my furniture or piggy bank. I love to look and dress extravagant and use my extraordinary good looks and strong personality to get what I want from my slaves and what I need and want out of life .My sites reflect different sides of my personality and I put an immense amount of work into them to keep them fresh and exciting. I also enjoy personal sessions with subs who are truly interested in experiencing what I have to offer and know how to meet my standards and follow my rules.

2. What is the cruelest thing you have ever done to someone?
One of my favourite pastimes is to trample a sub male into total oblivion .I walk on their faces and trample their pathetic little maleness in my extravagant heels and boots until they cry for mercy; but I’m not into mercy; I just smile back at their suffering and make them take more by convincing them with a look and a toss of my beautiful hair that their greatest happiness is to suffer for my amusement and pleasure. I also love to use my slaves as my personal furniture and spittoon. I can literally spend hours taking their breath away by sitting on their faces with my full weight and strip them of their last shred of dignity by filling their mouths with my divine spit, which they learn to love and crave like nectar. When I see a slave suffer like that for me and beg me with his eyes for more ,it gives me a thrill I can’t describe and the deeper into submission I take them, the happier I am, There is nothing to compare with how that makes me feel.

3. How do you know when you have truly broken someone?
Breaking a sub into a full-fledged slave is a process, and one which is a complete rush to experience. With each sub it is always different, but it is an exploration to find just what that particular sub needs to make him truly my total slave, who is ready and willing to take anything I mete out and to do anything to amuse me or make my life easier. Some need physical pain or discomfort in gross amounts, others crave my disdain or being exploited like the milk cows they are, but when they fall into total submission, I know it instantly. It’s the look in their eyes like a wounded puppy, and the total willingness to anticipate my wishes which marks a truly broken slave from just a run off the mill sub. If a sub doesn’t follow the path of true submission I have chosen for him, he will be discarded. That is the price of disobedience to my will and whim, and I never hesitate to inflict it whenever necessary.

4. What is your favorite way to humiliate someone?
I have a number of favourites. I love to use my subs as my personal armchair & sitting cushion; the look on their faces while I look down at them half suffocating under my gorgeous ass is absolutely priceless. I love to use them as my footrest and carpet and hear them moan and groan under my spiked heels and feet. I am not a heavy smoker, but I occasionally enjoy a cigarillo, and there are few pleasures as thrilling as using my slave’s whining mouth as my personal spittoon and ashtray- the possibilities of my cruel and creative mind are virtually endless.

5. What are some telltale signs of weakness?
There are various sign, some verbal and some non-verbal which give away weakness and a desire to be dominated. I can generally spot a sub and potential slave a mile away and as soon as the situation permits and the time is right, I will take this and use it to my advantage; after all why else are subs here except to serve their Mistresses in general and me in particular? As I said earlier, it is a process to take a sub’s natural inclination to serve and be dominated and turn that into unquestioning and total obedience and submission to my will and well being. Each one has his own particular psychological and physical code which has to be deciphered and then used to my benefit. I have become an expert over the years in reading those particular codes and breaking subs into proper slaves. My lifelong passion has always been horseback riding and training and the process of breaking and training a sub is in many ways quite similar, except that I would never use cruelty to train a horse. Subs, however, need and deserve a certain amount of cruelty to get them to put aside their pathetic male egos and to learn to administer to my needs first and I do love to administer it to them .In my experience, I find horses usually to be more of a challenge than most subs, who are generally easier to break and bend to my will than a first class horse is.

6. How do you go about exploiting someone's weaknesses?
Since every sub is different and has a unique code to unlock and increase his submission, the first step is to find out what that particular sub’s weaknesses and fixations are. I do that by a combination of observing and listening to the sub spill out what he wants and craves and drawing out ever more information from them to get an accurate picture of how best to exploit them and increase their dependence upon me. Pain junkies are generally easy to read, but the right dosage is important to keep them hooked and wanting more. Humiliation freaks and exploitation losers need a more psychological approach, and it can sometimes take some time before I find the exact recipe to start the process of winding them irretrievably around my pretty finger; but that’s part of the fun of the whole process of enslaving a man and I never tire of it.

7. What is your favorite thing about being truly dominant?
I love the feeling of complete power over my slaves and basking in their total adoration and willingness to put my needs and wants first-all of the time-every time-with no exceptions or bullshit. When you reach that stage with a slave, it is truly special and it gives me an incredible satisfaction that I have taken their natural desire to serve and moulded it to the point where the slave reaches ultimate fulfilment in giving me everything I want from him; however and whenever I want it. .That is the true and incomparable satisfaction of being a dominant Queen born to rule like I am

8. What are some of the many things that make you better than those around you?
While I am perfectly aware that some men are physically stronger than I am, or have special skills or talents; I have never met one who is a match for me on a one-one basis .I combine beauty and strength with intelligence, intuition, and an ability to project my will and personality in a way which has brought men ( first small ones, now grown ones) to their knees before me since I was a little girl. I have the power to find each man’s weakness and desire to serve a beautiful and desirable woman like myself ( which I am convinced is inborn in the vast majority of males) and turn that to my advantage and ultimately theirs as well. That makes me a superior person, who expects and deserves to be served and obeyed.

9. Scientists have found that the major sub-interests of Dominance/Sadism are:
Administrations of Pain, Bondage,Humiliation, and Dominance. Which of these are you most drawn to?

I love true dominance over my slaves and whatever it takes to achieve that, whether it be the infliction of pain, humiliation, instilling and cultivating a fetish, tease& denial, or anything else in the catalogue of D/S, I will be happy to use to gain that objective.

10. What do you find truly sexy?
Hearing and seeing a slave of mine saying and showing me by his actions that he will do anything I expect of him to serve me and make me happy. The ultimate thrill is when I have brought them to the point where they anticipate MY wishes and needs and I don’t even have to explicitly state them anymore; just a hint or a gesture will suffice to have them eating out of my hand .Then I know I have achieved true mastery and fulfilment. I have my standards and always treat and keep my slaves within the bounds of reason and decency, but I simply love to take them to their ultimate destiny, which is to serve me body and soul once they have proved themselves of being captured and held as my subjects. One of my slaves calls me his “wolflady” for my ice blue eyes and dominant personality, and like an alpha wolf, I tend to be someone who forms a pack around me for a lasting relationship, in which I rule, they serve and all benefit. That is truly sexy in my opinion.

You can see more of Lady Joanne Lafontaine here.