1. Please introduce yourself.

I am Ms. Justine of Los Angeles, a professional and lifestyle dominatrix. I also write a popular blog about fantasies, reviews and experiences.

2. What is the cruelest thing you have ever done to someone?

Denial. Everyone expects something, whether its release or the expectation of being released in session. I did a very intense scene with a regular. Slowly building up with corporal, CBT and a well used pinwheel. I restrained him spread eagle, blindfolded him and promised I would allow him to release himself. I continued to torture him this way for hours. Then I abruptly stopped and said there would be a big payoff at the end of the day. We continued our day with various vanilla things. At the end of the day, I simply bid him good-bye. He still bitches about it. Anyone can beat someone, to be truly cruel, you have to get inside one’s head.

3. How do you know when you have truly broken someone?

Most men are already broken when I see them. They want to be broken more or to know that they are okay for being broken. I think it takes a few hours in active session over an extended period of time to really break someone. It is not just about the physical, but the mental.

But really, I love making men cry. I love looking in their eyes and knowing that I own them. That whatever was out there was unsatisfying for them, that they couldn’t find what they were looking for in someone else or could never tell someone what they wanted, but they knew they needed something more.

4. What is your favorite way to humiliate someone?

It depends on what will really freak them out. I always enjoy GS, but lately I’ve wanted to blend more public humiliation into my play, something they would have to explain to the outside world but would be totally accepted, like a really bad haircut. Perhaps this is more humiliating to women then men. I love leading men around by a leash or slipping my finger through their o-ring, but that's so limiting. I would rather make them wear terrible ties all week and not be able to explain to their co-workers why, something that is acceptable in the vanilla world and questioned but no one would think a dominatrix is ruling his wardrobe.

5. What are some telltale signs of weakness?

Stuttering, low self-confidence, not being able to express what he wants, and not being able to look me in the eye.

6. How do you go about exploiting someone's weaknesses?

I demand that my slaves speak up and speak clearly. I also like to turn their fears against them.

7. What is your favorite thing about being truly dominant?

I’m actually unaware of any other way to live. I love walking into a room and knowing that I am going to be worshiped and noticed as the goddess that I am. Of course this applies to both sessions and vanilla settings.

8. What are some of the many things that make you better than those around you?

My intelligence, good looks and talent. And my long legs. “Any chambermaid can sit down, take off her shirt and men will come. True power comes from something different,” Dangerous Beauty. It just absolutely does not occur to me that I can't do something; I have high aspirations in all aspects of my life.

9. Scientists have found that the major sub-interests of Dominance/Sadism are: Administrations of Pain, Bondage,Humiliation, and Dominance. Which of these are you most drawn to?

I feel like humiliation and dominance come very naturally to me; they are easliy blended into my daily life. I like making men feel small. I like verbal games of wit. But actually administering pain is so tantalizing.

10. What do you find truly sexy?

People who read my blog.

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